How to attract a girl who ignores you

In earlier posts, I have discussed how to flirt and be attractive in general, and I have shared research on how to get a guy’s (or gal’s) attention.

Yet I still get emails from women asking how to let a guy know they are interested — and get him to approach them. I also get emails from men who want tips, beyond basic body language cues, that help them know a woman is really interested in them.

As usual, I dug into the research literature.

How to attract a girl without talking to her in school

As it turns out, a few pioneering researchers have covertly watched women flirting, in bars and on campuses, to answer these very questions. Through their observations, they have found a number of nonverbal behaviors and body language cues that women use to signal their potential interest to men, and motivate men to approach them, too.

Nonverbal Courtship Patterns in Women

The first study I reviewed came from Moore (1985), who performed an observational study of women flirting in bars and on a college campus.

Specifically, Moore had two trained observers covertly watch more than 200 single women in those locati

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